The point is would you be able to believe a cousin was capable of carrying out such an atrocious act without a bit of convincing ILB? Wouldn't you be shocked? None of the relatives seemed to be.Not one little bid.That to me is odd.
Undoubtedly, Snow. I reported, as being concerning, what I'd witnessed in the behaviour of a then 8 year old family member, to his grandmother. Surprisingly, she confirmed my concerns, adding some of her own going back to when the child was in reception class. Nothing was done. His behaviour escalated, ie, borrowing money and stealing to pay it back, moving on to excessive use of alcohol and drugs. To cut a long story short, he ended up in prison. Would this have happened had his parents been more proactive in dealing with his behaviour when he was a child, rather than saying he'd grow out of it? It's an entirely other question, but they couldn't say they weren't warned. Might similar have been true of the Bambers? Parents often bury their heads in sand.