I'm sure Julie Smerchanski can kick off her shoes after a hard day's work at the office and relax with your music choices. Let's unpick your post a little. You are at pains to separate the ingenue 19-year-old Julie Mugford from the woman she has now become: family-oriented, successful, a charity worker. Yet it seems behind the benevolence on this point there is still a thirst for vengeance to satisfy your clientele. Now which is it?
You also continue to use the word "charade" when discussing Julie's statements, and even put it in quotation marks, yet she never used that word. But don't let truth become a casualty of your long-winded, irrelevant and fanciful posts, even though I point things out which might deceive the rookie member.
You run down Julie in the personal and professional sphere. Don't tell me Julie wasn't pretty in her day, and don't tell me the teaching profession is for Mr. or Miss Average when you yourself achieved nothing of that level. You run down Julie again later in the thread by chastising her for not falling for a bespectacled Physics student, in the days when 1 in 10 made it to university, not the mass social institution you seem to imply.
So Jeremy was working at Sloppy Joe's in Colchester and Little Chef off the A12. The point you overlook is that he wished to do anything but farming: anything to get away from his parents' influence at White House Farm. Julie herself worked at Maldon Growers and also took other employment in France.
Yes Julie was humiliated by Jeremy. Finally you get it. Who is calling the shots in the relationship if Jeremy is womanizing under her nose, whilst she decorates Bourtree Cottage during her well-earned Easter break?
Again there is truth in your observation that Jeremy liked the label Rich Man in Waiting, or at least the first two words. The point was as he told PC Lay outside that charnel house which was White House Farm that August morning: he wanted a £38,000 Porsche to pull the birds, so five had to die, including two six-year-old twin boys, whose brains were left splattered on the bedhead behind.