Nug nug I think you are flogging a dead horse regarding this question and if I were you I would let it rest. Stephanie clearly doesn't want to answer.
Regarding SH posting the living arrangements of SL I personally think that is a step too far to put that on a public forum. It shouldn't be allowed and the mods need to put a stop to that. I didn't think we were allowed to post personal comments so if any of the mods are reading this, these posts should imo be removed.