Very, very true, abs, the McCanns have paid so dearly for their mistake. If I'm honest, I don't know many mums who haven't left a sleeping baby in the car while they've maybe nipped into school with an older child, something like that. It's a terrible gamble. But from what is being reported, Kate and Gerry seemed to leave their much-wanted, IVF children too often, or place them in various "clubs" while they went running, played tennis.............if they wanted a "grown-up" holiday, where they could socialise with their pals most nights, maybe they should have left the children at home, this once, with family. I'm possibly being unfair, but I alternate between feeling utter despair for them, and huge anger that they thought that they could leave 3 children sleeping, and occasionally pop in and check that their shapes were still under the blankets. But I so wish that they could find closure, and some sort of peace.